The Intimacy of Celebrity
Some scholars have located the birth of celebrity in the late-18th and 19th centuries, arguing that it emerged through the popularization of portraiture, a boom in biographies, memoirs and human-interest stories and news of celebrities in public events. This era also introduced celebrity through cinema and promoted the notion that the persona of a famous figure can outweigh their actual achievements, giving rise to such phenomena as celebrity-endorsed product lines like colas, teas, mustards, cosmetics and hair creams.The exploitation of celebrity, through gossip journalism and manufactured publicity, cultivates a false intimacy between celebrities and their audience, who become emotionally invested in the private lives of individuals they have never met. This creates an illusory connection that can shape people’s aspirations, values and lifestyle choices.A celebrity can be a role model, companion or aspirational figure for people. It is not uncommon for fans to regard their idols as intimate friends, establishing a bond with the celebrity that can shape the person’s identity and personal perspective on life. This heightened sense of familiarity can be problematic, as it can lead to unrealistic expectations and an over-investment in the lives of individuals who remain, at heart, strangers.Celebrities often encounter a lot of people on a daily basis, from the media and field-specific professionals (like crew members on film sets) to fans. If you are lucky enough to bump into a celebrity, remember that the celebrity is not used to meeting people like you. They may be overjoyed to meet you, but remember that the celebrity is also likely a very busy and important individual who has to prioritize work, family and other responsibilities. Be kind and courteous. Don’t use your phone without permission, as this can be seen as presumptive and rude. If you are trying to get a photo, handshake or autograph, step aside so that others can also meet the celebrity.It is also a good idea to talk about something other than the celebrity. Most famous people are not interested in discussing their newest project, and most are not very interested in hearing how great you think of them. Instead, be thoughtful and add your two cents to the conversation.Some celebrities take a stand on social issues, and the public can support these efforts in various ways, such as donating money, participating in TV or social media campaigns and visiting refugee camps. Benedict Cumberbatch, for example, hosts a Ukrainian refugee family at his UK home, and Angelina Jolie cofounded Kids in Need of Defense.